Welcome to my Love Blog!


Here you will find my latest on all things love. 

Learn what to do and what not to do in dating and in relationships.

Changing Your Vibration

I had a dream where there were a whole bunch of people on stage. One man was  looking around not understand where he was and why everyone was on stage.  He was about to leave. Just then, some people busted out in a tune and they were each singing their part and all of...

read more

Healing from Your Past

I had a dream of three exes sitting behind me in a theater. I felt they were watching me and judging me and the way I was living my life. I wanted them to stop looking at me and disappear. We can hold regrets and unprocessed emotions from our past deep in our...

read more

Are You or Your Partner Emotionally Stunted?

Have you ever been with someone who says they want to be in a relationship and then operates at a teenage level? Have you been this person? This person is acting about half their age or less. You are with this person and assume they will act the maturity level of...

read more

Are You or Your Partner Emotionally Stunted?

Have you ever been with someone who says they want to be in a relationship and then operates at a teenage level? Have you been this person? This person is acting about half their age or less. You are with this person and assume they will act the maturity level of...

read more

Help for Being Quick to React

Help for Being Quick to React I had mentioned in previous blogs that many spouses have been showing up needing help with their partner. 2020 and now 2021 has brought a slew of new dynamics to deal with in romantic relationships. Tempers be a flying! Have you ever been...

read more

What to do When your Partner is Suffering

You are an upbeat, positive person with some good practices of your own. You take responsibility for your life and do your best to take care of yourself. You may even be a healer or sensitive type. What do you do if your partner is suffering? If you are someone who...

read more

Three Tips for Difficult Conversations

This year has been a trying time for so many couples I’ve spoken with. Things have changed in the dynamics of living situations, work situations, school and so on. When you’re going through stress and are fatigued, sensitive, it can be easy to show up as our worst...

read more

Are Old Beliefs Getting in the Way of Love?

I have a client who has been searching for her romantic partner. She’s been having such a hard time because she meets someone, is interested, and they leave. She met a man who was making her feel unsafe in her body, so she actually left. She met a man who was anxious...

read more

6 Steps for Going Inward

With all that’s been going on in the world, you may have gotten a little nudge to go inward. I’m going to share my process and steps with you if you’ve been wanting to do this work of the Spiritual Warrior. When I moved back to California in April, I knew I needed to...

read more

Song Lyrics in Dreams

Right now we have several planets that have gone retrograde so it’s beneficial to reflect and review, especially with the time we’ve been given right now during quarantine. I’m reviewing everything, especially love. I heard a song this morning upon waking. It was from...

read more

Help for Relationships

My client was at her wits end because she and her husband were having things come between them. At first it started as arguments and him slowly pulling away. She tried to control the situation by trying to demand that they spend time together. That didn’t work. He...

read more

Broken Record in Love

I was working with a woman who had come up against a stubborn back injury. Nothing she was doing was helping her feel better. What I know energetically that weakens the physical back is a lack of feeling supported in life, over-giving and an unwillingness to receive....

read more

Addicted to Love?

A woman I worked with was struggling with something her boyfriend said to her. After watching a show where a man was struggling with addiction to drugs, she had asked him what he was addicted to. He said he didn’t know what he was addicted to. She asked him what he...

read more

Problems in Relationships

I remember a mentor saying Happily Ever After is a fantasy. While I understand what she was saying about the fantasy of meeting your Prince Charming and riding into the sunset being happy forever not being realistic, I do believe you can have Your Happily Ever After....

read more

Miscommunication in Love

Have you ever felt like you said something and your partner completely missed the point of what you said? It’s always helpful to remember that both partners are listening through a filter of their perceptions based on experiences, any unhealed wounding and conclusions...

read more

Strengthening the Throat Chakra

The theme for the past couple of weeks has been to speak up even when you don’t want to. Clients have been allowing boundaries to be crossed again and again and it's taking a toll on their nervous system. Over the past few months I’ve been having recurring dreams...

read more

Alone Time

I remember becoming upset when my now ex husband wanted his twin brother to move in with us shortly after we married. The hurt that arose the moment he requested this came from the thought that he doesn’t want to live with just me. I had made up beliefs that he didn’t...

read more

Release Old Heavy Baggage

  Have you ever wished you could just feel happy when you’re feeling off? You distract yourself from facing your inner demons. It’s a form of resistance. Whether I decide to share this with you or not, and if you’re reading this, I was brave enough to share, I...

read more

Do You Love Him More than He Loves You?

Have you ever had the thought that you love your partner more that he loves you? Have you ever been frustrated that you need more affection than your partner? I was frustrated because I crave my partner’s touch so much that I feel like I need more affection than him,...

read more

Can Love Keep Fear at Bay?

Have you ever jumped all in in love and then later sabotaged the relationship? It’s been a roller coaster entry shortly after diving into the deep end with my boyfriend. My mom said, “Follow your heart, but keep your head on.” I didn’t know what she meant by that and...

read more

Re-Live Love

A colleague of mine asked if I would answer some questions for her on non-verbal behavior. I asked her if a kiss could be an example. She said yes, so I sent her this. “When I was 11 years old I met BJ, a boy who lived on my block. We became friends. I remember we...

read more

Release the Crazies

When you head over heels for someone it can be really hard to maintain your center. All you want to do is spend time with this person. The divine feeling of being swallowed by someone has you feeling bathed in love. At some point this compulsion to spend all of your...

read more

Can You Turn Lust into Love?

Today I saw an anonymous comment that infatuation is when you find someone absolutely perfect. Love is when you realize they aren't perfect and it doesn't really matter. I believe that when you truly get to know someone for who they are and don’t compromise your needs...

read more

Dream Healing for Love

Almost everyday I have dreams for me, but I don’t often write about me because a woman once told me my newsletter should be inspirational and not a journal about me. I let that criticism in until I realized that as a collective consciousness healer, what I’m going...

read more

How to Detach from Unhealthy Love

I had a dream where a woman was at her ex boyfriend’s house. She was very attracted to him always wanting to touch his sexy body. This ex kept asking her to marry him and she knew she was a no, but was still in his home. All of a sudden, he told her she had to hide....

read more

Missing an Ex

Still Thinking About an Ex? Depending on what needs to heal, an ex may show up in your mind all of a sudden and stay there until you deal with him.  When one person is thinking of another, the energy is real and can connect to the other. One possibility is to ask that...

read more